Gems of Healing & Empowerment

They Told You It Was Love. It Was a Lie. Welcome to Your Breakthrough.

Are You Ready to Break Free from the Cycle of Narcissistic Abuse?
What happens when love turns into manipulation, and charm disguises deep-seated control? Narcissist: The Other N Word is a raw, eye-opening journey through the devastating effects of a toxic relationship with a covert narcissist.

If you’ve ever questioned your own reality, felt like you were walking on eggshells, or constantly blamed for everything going wrong, this book will help you see the truth, break the cycle, and start healing.

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This book saved me. Devyne Blessings put into words what I couldn’t even explain to my closest friends. Every page felt like she was handing me a flashlight out of the darkness. If you’ve ever doubted yourself because of emotional abuse, this book is the validation and healing you’ve been searching for.

– Jessica M.

Raw, real, and absolutely necessary. Narcissist: The Other N-Word doesn’t just tell a story… it shows you the roadmap out of the gaslighting, confusion, and trauma bonds. I cried, I healed, and I rediscovered my strength. Every woman needs this book in her survival toolkit

– Amber R.

Devyne’s honesty and courage jump off every page. She takes you deep inside the mind games of covert narcissism and shows you how to break free with your soul still intact. This isn’t just a book, it’s a movement for women reclaiming their power.

– Monique L.

I couldn’t put it down. Every chapter made me feel seen, heard, and understood. The Other N-Word beautifully combines storytelling with practical healing steps. If you’re ready to stop doubting yourself and start rebuilding, read this immediately.

– Tasha D.

In this book, you'll learn

The mind games, manipulation, and tactics used by covert narcissists
How to spot covert narcissist red flags others miss
Real-life examples of manipulation, silent sabotage, and emotional control
The psychological traps that keep smart, strong women stuck
How to reclaim your identity, set boundaries, and say “no” without guilt
Healing strategies that work—from breaking trauma bonds to rebuilding your self-worth
Why you are not crazy… and never were
Read it. Break free. And glow like the daylight you deserve.

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More than a memoir - 160+ pages of insight, real life examples, and empowerment

Devyne Blessings, Author

Devyne Blessings is a writer, advocate, and speaker whose mission is to help survivors of narcissistic abuse reclaim their voice, rebuild their confidence, and rise from the emotional wreckage of toxic relationships. Drawing from her own harrowing experience with a covert narcissist, Devyne offers more than just theory, she offers lived truth. Her insights are grounded in personal transformation, years of research, and collaborative conversations with therapists, trauma-informed coaches, and psychological professionals.

Her work dives deep into the complexities of gaslighting, trauma bonding, emotional manipulation, and the subtle, insidious nature of covert abuse—issues she not only studied extensively but endured firsthand. With a voice that is both relatable and empowering, Devyne brings light to subjects many suffer through in silence.

Through her book, speaking engagements, and online platforms, she has become a powerful force for awareness and healing. She has been featured on national networks and digital stages, amplifying conversations around narcissistic abuse, emotional resilience, and boundary setting. Whether through her raw storytelling or actionable healing strategies, Devyne is committed to guiding others from gaslight to daylight, one empowered soul at a time.

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